Some of you still don’t get it, so I think it’s time for me to go over some of my rules of approaching:

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Hot girls are a lot easier to deal with than average women. They’re easier to neg and get away with. Average women are easily offended. You should only be approaching average women when no hot girls are available in the immediate area. And remember, even though you aren’t going for everyone else in the group, make sure that you at least acknowledge and include them in the initial conversation.

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Not only am I fun to talk to, but I’m just as interesting to watch. I think this is one of the main things that separate me from other men; I am just an entertaining guy to watch talking simply because of how animated and expressive I am. Everything I say is just that much funnier when there are animations to go with it. I can not express how important it is to bring your conversations to life.

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I have a saying: do the exact opposite as every other guy. This means no interview type questions, calling women on their bullshit, not showing too much interest too soon. I think before I talk and ask myself ‘Would another guy say what I’m about to say?’ If the answer is yes, then I don’t say it.

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Again, I am constantly marching forward. I never get stuck in the trap of just standing there and bullshitting back and forth. Every conversation I have has an end goal in mind. When you just stand there bullshitting, you risk losing the girl due to sheer boredom. Not only that, but you also risk coming off as every other guy trying to spit his rap.

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It amazes me how many guys don’t understand this principle. I punish bad behavior, and reward good behavior. Where do I start? If she’s really hot, I start off by punishing her, but if she’s already giving me indicators of interest, then I reinforce her good behavior by being nice to her. If you reward bad behavior, you lose the girl. And if you punish good behavior, you lose the girl. Punish bad behavior, and reinforce good behavior. It’s that simple.

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Don’t give her what she wants. Make her work for it. If she gets what she wants right away, then it means nothing to her. If she doesn’t get it right away, and has to work for it, then she will have a growing appreciation for it. Dangle the carrot in front of her and make her chase a little.